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Life's a puzzle....


It has been complete 4 years since I visited my blog and that too I visited accidently.
I thought of penning down my views/thoughts again.

In 4 years life has been upside down....
Life changes every moment...but for me it changed drastically in 4 years.

There  are different phases of human life....
When you are born...u are free of worries...
when u grow up....u come to know something day by day which ultimately increases
your curiosity to know things better.U ape ur parents and all elders and try to do something new and has
zeal to do something.Still you have positive energy all around till your teen age.


Then comes the teenage, where u are distracted all around....Friends, studies, parents.....
U want to enjoy everything in that sort span of your teenage.You feel life is best at this age...and surely it is.
This is the age devoid of all worries and so much energy inside you that you can win this world...with your mere confidence and
imagination.But here comes the negative energy along with positive energy.Your way of life gets decided here.
Whether you want positive energy to be your friend or negative energy.


After teenage,the time comes where you have to choose your career,your goal, your lifestyle...
Your final step which will decide your future to some extent.You have the quarrel within you what is right and what is wrong.
Your positive energy and negative energy fights with each other...whoever wins decides your future.
You get your destination , goal in mind...work through it and settle down.


Then comes the real phase where all your childhood, teenage and adolescence teaching helps you in your walk of life.
This draws out the real human in you.Here survival of the fittest theory of Charles Darwin works.
If you have patience, maturity level to understand every other person,know how to manage things and people...u survive happily.
If you lack something....things can turn the other way.
A happy  life leads you to heaven like life....else hell on earth.
So, its for us decide here, what life we want on earth...heaven or hell.
Surely heaven....
Then we keep on working on that......we try ,try and try...some succeed afte moulding themselves the way their family demands.
But some can't ...and our life becomes a complete failure.
After failure some gets a good life some a wretched life.....Every story need not have a happy ending.

I lie in the same condition,struggling to survive....trying to mould myself the way situation wants
but sometimes fail...sometimes succeed.
Life is a mixture of sweet,sour and spice...
Everyone has the sweet, sour experience in their lifetime.....

The one who get used to it tastes the real taste of life.

......In an attempt to live a happy life  :) .....



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