Arranged Marriage and Love Marriage had always been a topic of discussion.I too was trapped in this dilemma.But I always thought, best marriage according to Indian mentality is Love but Arranged. No panga....But it rarely happens. As usual my marriage was also arranged with lots of differences. We both couldn't have rejected each other as there were no reason for rejection from both side, our marriage was settled.We started talking over phone as we were in two different locations.We had lots of differences, unlike sweet talks between the two, our call would end up in a fight.If, I don't agree on some points, I used to tell him then and there.And as usual, male ego gets hurt , I was unaware of those things at that time.He used to switch off the mobile for days.My calls used to get unanswered.I used to panic, if they break the marriage, what will happen?? As in middle class family , these things matter a lot. Although, I was working in a corporate firm,I could have moved on in
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